subs that slut

I am re-posting articles that I had written for the site Domme Dose. Most of the articles aren't online anymore, so I decided to go ahead and put them up here.

Subs that Slut

First, let’s define what “slutting,”means in the context that I am writing about. A slave slutting is when they go around to multiple Dommes, even going as far as to tell each Domme that they are seeing her exclusively when they are, in fact, not.

Many slaves slut around to other Dommes. It’s a fact. Many so-called “owned” slaves slut around. There are times when I believe that slutting is and is not acceptable.

Some slaves, especially online, are prone to going from Domme to Domme and have never seriously considered the option of being fully owned in a real sense. In My opinion, a lot of this can be attributed to the fact that in a lot of cases one feels a huge divide from reality in the online world. In the minds of many subs online, all aspects are simply fantasies and nothing more.

This can be a problem, and sometimes it’s not.

It’s a problem when the sub blatantly goes around lying to Dommes. That’s never okay. If you’re going to slut, find Dommes who don’t give a shit if you slut or not. Plain and simple. Sure, you may be drawn to specific Dommes who don’t tolerate slutting, but if they’re not going to be able to respect the fact that you’re being completely honest from the beginning, then it’s best to move on. Dommes have feelings too, as much as we are ruthless, evil, mean, demanding, controlling – well, I’m assuming that you know all about that.

Despite all of these attributes, we still get pissed when we are lied to – especially by those who stick around by us for a prolonged period of time. I’m speaking of this with the assumption that the Dommes are actually doing this for more than *just* the money, and also enjoy having an array of devoted worshippers that are loyal to her and stick by her.

Some of you don’t want to slut. Some of you genuinely want to be fully owned, yet it never seems to work out, so you find yourselves straying away as soon as you get too close. It’s a vicious cycle that some of you have repeated for years upon years, one Domme after the other, never finding any real sense of purpose or direction, constantly searching for that one woman to fill the void that has festered within you for so long.

In the process you have done nothing meaningful except spew a bunch of lies to those whom you respect and adore the most.

To those who don’t want to slut but don’t seem to be able to help it – tell each Domme you contact that yes, you see other Dommes but are wishing to stop at some point, and to please bear with you while you figure out what you want.

To those of you who slut and never plan on stopping, tell each Domme you contact that you are going to see other Dommes, or simply that full ownership is not something you are interested in.

To those of you who lie and slut behind your Dommes back – confess, and figure out what exactly it is that you want. Obviously you’re unhappy and something isn’t working out, but lying is never the right answer… especially since being submissive is so inherent in your nature, at the core of your being. Lying to superior women is not something you enjoy – no, it only brings shame and guilt.

Ask yourself – what is it that you want?

Full-time Findom: A Real Job

I am re-posting articles that I had written for the site Domme Dose. Most of the articles aren't online anymore, so I decided to go ahead and put them up here.

A huge misconception that many have about Financial Dommes is that we're all a bunch of women who just sit around and do nothing while making money.

I'd like to put an end to this idea, as it is complete and utter bullshit. Honestly, I'm writing this piece not just for those who aren't into findom who have a completely skewed idea of it - but for the subs who serve us, and the women who want to be financial dommes. I think it's important that subs know just how much work a Domme puts into her craft, and women who aren't willing to put in the work need to focus on other ventures.

Let Me try to break this down as easily as possible. 

I am 100% responsible for the creation of all of My graphics, content, designs, pictures, videos, and more. I have had graphic subs in the past. I ended up just redoing everything they did because I can do everything better than they can. I design everything. I learned photoshop, I learned how to edit videos, learned html, SEO optimization, countless programs, how to host an ftp server/host My own files, and am currently in the process of figuring out how to instate a high-risk payment gateway/merchant account so that I can accept payments for a members-only site, because most of the companies which dommes go through to receive payments will take 30% or more of our profits.

There are many things that attracted Me to financial domination in particular. One of them is the fact that I don't want to objectify Myself. I am not going for get naked to you. I am not going to cater to your every fucked up fetish/desire/whatever. I only do what I enjoy doing. I also refuse to rely on My looks and body to make money. I plan on being a domme professionally even when I'm older. I think about the future, and not just about right now. I want to be seen as an intelligent and brilliant woman. I want to be worshipped and served because of that. Yes, physically I am gorgeous. I have an amazing body, and a beautiful face. I am more than just those things. My physical appearance does not determine who I am - and physical appearance alone is not grounds for worship, as our pop culture and media seem to completely ignore. I seek real financial slaves. I seek slaves that are going to be long-term, slaves who are going to worship Me the way that I deserve to be worshipped, and also the boy who is going to just spend money on My niteflirt/clip store and tribute randomly because hey - I love making money. I also have found that when I say I am just a domme on profiles, the sheer amount of messages I get from subs who think that I want to get them off/watch them on cam/let them watch Me on cam/meet them in person for free is ridiculous. Yeah right.

This brings Me to..... the reason I have a website. The reason I have a blog. The reason I learned SEO/advertising. This makes it so that I am easily found, am easy to contact, and give the slave enough information about Myself so that if they are looking for a Domme that is interested in something I am not into, no ones time is wasted. Despite the fact that I have posted all over the place My email address, links to buy My yahoo ID, how to buy My yahoo ID if you can't use any of the aforementioned payment systems, contact forms on My website, countless accounts I can be messaged through... I still receive mails from "subs" who say they have been trying to figure out how to contact Me for MONTHS. Despite the fact that I repeatedly state I will not get naked, I still receive emails like the one I did this morning requesting that I film a clip of Me shitting on the camera followed by "thanks hunn!!! muaahhhhhh!" Despite the fact that I say I am not here to just get you off and cater to your wanking bullshit, I received a niteflirt call this morning where the first thing out of the dumb fucks mouth was "hey so I'm just gonna jack off and listen to you." to which I said, "I'm not dealing with you," put the phone next to the TV and walked away. Fuck if I'm going to get this dumb fuck off by verbally humiliating him after he was so disrespectful. 

If you look at highly successful Dommes you see - they put in work. They spend HOURS on cam, they have well put together websites, are easy to contact, are found virtually everywhere, and more. How do you think that happened? By sitting around on their asses and typing "uh give me moneyyy loser." and then trotting off to lay around on the couch eating snickers and playing video games, taking the occasional break to type into twitter, "WTF Y RNT U LOSERS GIVN ME MUNYYY????#FINANCIALDOMINATION" Yeah, no. No, certainly not. If you think that's how it works I'm afraid you have been very misled. 

The same goes for a lot of My friends who I have told what I do. Yes, I love getting My friends into financial domination, but only after I make damn sure they aren't confused about what it is. 

You make your own success. If you truly want to be successful at something, it's not going to happen just because you have a pretty face and a bitchy attitude.

And another thing - subs who think they can go without ever having to pay for our time. If all of the time I spend a week online as a Findomme were to be counted, I put in well over a normal 40 hour work week. I expect My time to be compensated. I am not just some lazy girl who is here thinking I can just get rich quick, or make a few bucks, or even big bucks, without having to do anything. That's bullshit - and even subs I've had for a long time have had this misconception.

It's funny, because most money slaves absolutely love the idea that a woman can just enjoy, relax, and do nothing while making money. Isn't that part of it? 

I am a Domme full time. I do not have another job, don't want one, and I sure as hell don't need one. I make a good living as an online Domme. I'm sure as hell not complaining - but I think it's fucked up when subs/whoever say things like "oh, well if you want a good computer maybe you should think about getting a job! hahaha." Yeah. I do have a job. My computer is what I use to work on. I use it to write html for layouts on various sites, design websites, design graphics, edit videos, record videos (the ones you enjoy so much), do cam sessions, talk to your dumb ass, tweet, not to mention do all this while building long-term and deep relationships, psychologically invade minds, completely mind fuck, constantly humiliate, degrade, and completely control countless amounts of male submissives. Not only does it involve LEARNING a shit ton of stuff that I'm sure most of you have absolutely no clue how to execute/go about doing, but it also involves being highly brilliant, creative, talented, literate, and simply superior in so many ways. If I don't know how to do something you know what I do? I figure out how to do it even if takes days, weeks, or months. I don't ever let the lack of knowledge be an excuse not to do something. If I don't know how to do it, I learn it. Simple. If I never research or teach Myself how something is done, I will never be able to do it, and I hate having to rely on others to get shit done. No one will do anything I want better than I can do it.

I was not taught how to do anything. I did not have a mentor. I did not have a teacher. I taught Myself how to design websites, how to do html, how to edit videos, how to create advertisements, how to get My name out there, how to do absolutely anything I could ever want to put My mind to - and do it! I am most certainly an over-achiever. I do not believe in settling for anything less than what My vision of what I want is. I would rather work for something than settle for something less than if I had done it Myself. Don't even get Me started on ladies who think they can get into financial domination without having to lift a finger. I am more than happy to help women who are genuinely interested in the fetish/lifestyle and want to put the work in. I'm not interested in helping girls who don't want to do shit - because that's certainly no way to start anything if you want to do it right. I'm also not going to point fingers at Dommes or be a catty bitch towards My fellow ladies - financial domme or otherwise. I hated highschool, that's just one of the reasons why I started going to college full time when I was 14 years old. Fuck drama, that shit is below Me. 

Back to what I was saying...

It's hard to be so brilliant/mentally capable of grasping ideas/having the ability to navigate the internet while so many of you don't. It seriously boggles the mind. I am constantly trying to remember that not only do I want to be well-spoken and articulate, but I need to keep in mind that the brain capacity of most of My readers/viewers is that of a mentally challenged three year old. And people who still have trouble with English (I AM NOT A TRANSLATOR/DICTIONARY/MIND READER/GOOGLE). 

Let's recap. 

- Financial Dommes (at least the good ones) are actually really intelligent, sophisticated, over-achievers who know their worth and aren't afraid to go for what they want.

- There is a damn good reason why you're paying for our time.

- We are smarter than you, and if you have a problem with Financial Dommes it is because you are incredibly jealous of the fact that we have what you don't.

- If you have a stupid question, there's probably an easily found answer.

- There is a reason why we make websites. 

- Think before you speak, especially if you are about to make an ignorant and judgmental comment.

- I would be interested to see a successful findom who hasn't put in any work

I know this sounded like a total bitching rant. Yeah, it kind of was. However, I'm not unhappy with being a financial domme.... on the contrary, I wouldn't trade it for the world! I love being a Domme. I wouldn't have it any other way. I also don't like ever being viewed as unintelligent or lazy - those are two things that should not be celebrated, and are not to be looked up to. In this culture of absolute idiocy, where everything is dumbed down "for your viewing pleasure," where most every form of media is made in such a way that anyone with a brain will be rendered completely forgetful of the fact that they have one, where everyone wants what they want NOW and can't be bothered to wait or work for it, where most of our liberties have been stripped away without notice, this "give me convenience or give me death," society... it makes you wonder. It's easy to find an empty shell. They're everywhere. Dead eyes, vacant smiles, plastic faces, plastic hearts, plastic brains, everything in the now, no thoughts of the future.... It makes me sick. Why worship an empty shell? Why pretend to be an empty shell? Why not celebrate our intelligence instead of trying to mask it?

I love being worshipped and celebrated for My intelligence. You know what else? I enjoy actually living My life. Living it. Experiencing the world. Traveling. Getting to experience new cultures, new ideas, new streams of thought, ideas, concepts, people. Life. Celebrate life. Celebrate yourself as a domme. Celebrate your domme as a sub. Always be true to your essence, and the core of the person that is you.

Put in the work. There are no shortcuts, and no easy way to get to your ideal place in life. The same goes for being a successful financial domme. Certainly, you can put in virtually no work and make a few bucks. That's in no way a sustainable/reliable source of income to support yourself on. That's just supplementary. I'm not willing to settle for that. Set your goals high. Educate yourself. Learn how to do everything yourself and never rely on others to do the work for you. Women who are successful as financial dommes are generally brilliant, creative masterminds. Don't forget it.

Unity Between Dommes

I am re-posting articles that I had written for the site Domme Dose. Most of the articles aren't online anymore, so I decided to go ahead and put them up here.

This is an article written and directed at other Dommes. Submissives are welcome to share their opinions on this topic as well.

There is an over-abundance of cattyness, backstabbing, and jealousy that can be found within the Domme scene. This is a mindset that certain dommes have, which I would like to address. 

Why do Dommes attack other Dommes?

I do not think most dommes realize why they do what they do. The following is 100% personal opinion that many may disagree with. 

I believe that a lot of dommes attack and lash out at other dommes due to jealousy and fear. When you lash out for silly or far-fetched reasons, it ultimately makes you appear weak and insecure. If you are that insecure with yourself that you lash out, start fights, rumors, and more - you probably aren't strong enough or comfortable with yourself to the point where you should be a Pro-Domme. 

Appearance is really everything on the internet. As a domme, you want to appear strong. You want to appear confident. Lashing out against others may make you feel as if you are coming off as strong and confident, but to me and many others, it makes you appear quite the opposite. 

New ladies seem to be the biggest target. If you think about it in terms of, for example, a company that makes a product. When a new company marketing a similar product comes along, they will want to attempt to stamp out the competition. We are not companies, corporations, a material possession. We are human beings. We are women. A lot of us also believe in feminism or female supremacy. Even if you don't follow these streams of belief, what is it that you really have against new and/or established dommes? 

• Fear of losing money
• Fear of competition
• Appearing better

This boils down to insecurity. You don't have to like every domme out there, just like you don't like everyone you meet in your life. Don't box yourself in with preconceptions that every domme is going to come along and steal your profit. Life is too short. 

I am in no way saying that you shouldn't feel free to disagree with other dommes. I've found myself disagreeing with dommes before. I disagree with certain beliefs, viewpoints, etc. just like with anyone else. I'm not going to say, "oh it's okay because she's a domme and I respect and love her just because of that." Nah. 

I enjoy talking to new and established dommes. I love learning from each other, exchanging silly stories, and building strong friendships. I also love exploring domination with close friends in my real life! I was so happy to be able to introduce my best friend to the online domination world. We used to live together, and we had so much fun dominating submissives together, laughing about our experiences, and bonding even more because of it. Right now I have another friend who I've talked a lot about what I do online. She has been so interested, lately I have been having her come over so I can show her exactly what it is, and she is currently planning on building a website, filming clips and getting involved. It's so much more fun when you have a companion (or more than one) who can relate to the experiences that you have in this particular aspect of your life. Especially since this is, really, a very small niche. It's the same in most aspects of life. You get along with people who share the same interests that you do because you can talk about those things and relate to each other. I am a writer and I have friends that are writers. I am a musician and I have friends who are musicians. I am a domme and I have friends who are dommes. All of these are different large aspects of our lifestyles, and we use these parts of our lives to identify ourselves with. 

One of the most common assaults on dommes is the "fake" accusation. Sometimes this may be true, other times it may not be. I am on a website (findoms.com) where all of the women are cam-verified. It wasn't always this way. Before they started making cam verification mandatory, I recall being accosted by several women on the site for various reasons. This has never happened since they made it a "cam verified mistress only" site. I think this has a lot to with the fact that it has been really successful in weeding out ladies who aren't truly interested in the fetish, and ladies who are using fake pictures (and even I have been guilty of that, which you can read about here). -------------(bruce, it would be nice to link my article "the masked domme" here)-------------------- In all honesty, I visit the community more for the interaction and conversations I have with the ladies on there. Having a sub serve Me as a result of being on the website is simply a bonus. 

In closing, in such a small and misunderstood community, it is nice to be able to feel empowered and supported through the friendship and/or respect of others who are following the same calling. We should all think before we speak out publicly, especially when it is at the expense of someone else.

Princess Chloe

Thoughts on Chastity

I am re-posting articles that I had written for the site Domme Dose. Most of the articles aren't online anymore, so I decided to go ahead and put them up here.


Chastity involves denying a slave of their ability to orgasm. Generally the slave needs a chastity device that will be affixed and locked to the genitals.

There are many great benefits to having a slave in chastity. I will outline several of these benefits.

I have found when a slave is locked in chastity they are more submissive and attentive than ever. A slave who once had a hard time remembering things I told it will remember and cling to every word I say. Not only will they remember every word, but their obedience increases as well.  A once difficult slave may find that once in chastity they want to please their Dominant more than ever. A slave will also want to work as hard as possible so that they will be released on the day agreed upon, and their greatest form of pleasure (what used to be their release) is now purely pleasing and submitting to their Dominant.

Because of the level of increased submission, I have found that having a slave locked in chastity is the most ideal for training and conditioning. Training a slave who is locked in chastity is much easier than training a slave who is not (of course there are exceptions to the rule). Having orgasm denial forced upon the slave at all times increases their desire for that release, and they will do practically anything to be able to do that again. Training the slave when they are in this condition is highly rewarding for both the Domme and the slave.

As fantastic as chastity is, there are some things to consider before entering to any chastity contract.

It is important that when in chastity you have the right Domme. I also believe that when a slave is locked in chastity they should be able to contact the Domme at any time. This should not be abused - but there are some dangers and situations that can come up where the slave will need to be released immediately or as soon as possible (depending on what method of locking is used, will go into that later). It's important to be safe when undergoing any chastity situation. 

Are you going to use a key or a combination lock? Both of these options certainly have their allure. There is something very humbling and drives a slave crazy about seeing the Domme holding the key to their cage. It is so enticing, so alluring to hand over the key to your manhood. However, if you need to be released for some reason, chances are (assuming this is an online D/s relationship) it may take a while for the key to arrive in the mail. It's impossible to instantly be unlocked. 

A combination lock also has its ups and downs. Generally when locking a slave using a combination lock I will have them blindfold themselves and get on webcam. I have them scramble the numbers, write down the numbers, and when I am sure of what they are I give them the signal to lock the device, then have them rescramble them. Obviously, there are ways that a slave can get around blindfolding themselves on webcam, and if they are dishonest can work around this method. However, it is much easier to send the combination at a moments notice. This method is great if the slave will be locked for several days, released, locked again, etc. and there is a lot of locking and unlocking to be had. In this situation it is imperative that the Domme be sure of the numbers, and that they keep good track of what the combination is. Also, if the slave needs to break out of the device in an emergency, I can send them a pay-to-view mail they must pay for to get the numbers.

It's also important to test being in a device for a while before just sending the key over. I've had instances where a slave was so desperate to get out that it was in the garage trying to saw the device off. This is not good, and all precautions should be taken to avoid this sort of desperate act. As much as abusing slaves amuses Me, a slave should never be in the position where they are so desperate that they risk mutilating themselves for life. 

Chastity is definitely an enticing fetish, and also a fun way to get a slave to their ultimate level of submission. Readers are encouraged to write about their own experiences and thoughts on chastity.

Interview for DommeDose

I am re-posting articles that I had written for the site Domme Dose. Most of the articles aren't online anymore, so I decided to go ahead and put them up here. Edited due to outdated links.

1. i know You had this in Your blog and even on the domme dose, but to the readers that for some reason haven't seen them: How did You become a domme?

That question is one that is certainly deserving of a long-winded answer. 

Anyhow, I will try to summarize and add things that I omitted from that article. Unlike many writeups and bio's that I have seen in the past, I am not going to say that I was born a Domme. I was not born telling men what to do, being a bossy, bratty bitch. Actually, I grew up with very few male figures in My life, and most of the men I knew growing up were gay. As a child in school, I got picked on a lot. It was probably around the age of 12 that I discovered punk rock, and completely revamped and adjusted My attitude. I stopped being a victim. I shaved My head and got a mohawk. I beat the crap out of the jock who had been tormenting Me for years, spit in his face - and since I did so well in school, I only had to go to half a year of highschool and continued My education at college when I was 14. 

I grew up in the punk scene, and did a whole lot of learning. I learned about Myself, I learned about manipulation, mind-fuckery... I also learned a lot about love, unity, respect, etc. So there was a whole lot going on back then. However, as I talked about in My article, there was definitely a void throughout My life. I still can't describe how wonderful it felt to pick on those who had picked on Me, to proudly show everyone what a strong, beautiful, intelligent woman I am. I completely embraced this side of Myself, and when I found online domination it was like a switch went on. I knew instantly that I would do fantastically at it. I knew that it was something I wanted to do, something that called to Me. I believe the article "The Masked Domme," that I wrote, also really sums up the process that I went through in embracing the truly dominant aspects of My personality.

2. Have You always been dominant in Your life?

The simple answer is: no. I wasn't always dominant in My life, and I don't think that makes Me any less of a Domme. I think it makes Me stronger. I have been through a lot in My life, have struggled, have been hassled, and I think those things really shaped Me into a Domme. Perhaps if none of those things had happened, I would still be a Domme - but you never know. There is no way to redo your life and see how things would have turned out differently. I am glad that everything in My life has happened because it shaped Me into the person that I am now. 

I am very dominant, but I do have My sweet side as well - something that subs rarely get to see. I am very ruthless, manipulative, and My favorite part about dominating is the mind-fuck. Completely mind-fucking a slave gives Me a huge rush of power. It is who I am, and I love that part of Me - and all parts of Me, inside and out.

3. Do You remember the first slave You worked over?

This is a tough one. I remember the first slave to contact Me just said off the bat, "how much money would You like?" So I said, "Five hundred dollars." Bam. I had five hundred dollars. Then I never heard from the slave again because it got too frightened of what else I would do to it. 

The first slave I *really* worked over happened on teamviewer. I completely locked down the computer, and owned the slave for over a year. I'd make it go out and get ME moneypacks, do shopping on amazon, graphic work, etc. (I do all My own graphic work now as I haven't found a graphic slave that is comparable to My skills). 

4. What are Your favorite fetishes to exploit slaves with?

Financial exploitation is My favorite - but I always like to mix it up with mind-fucking, taunting, humiliation, etc. I have a slight shoe obsession (:D!) so I really love exploiting losers foot fetishes, working them over, taunting them, humiliating them, etc. I love exploiting and humiliating sissy bitches - I find these can be some of the funnest slaves to keep around. I also love just purely being worshipped (however, I never get naked for slaves - so worship of that kind is a no-no). I really do have a lot of different fetishes that I like to exploit, and I'm sure there are some I haven't even heard of that I will end up using against some poor freak. 

5. Do You have hard limits? Any fetishes You will not do?

My #1 all-time, ultimate limit is children. This is not just in fantasy play and such. If you are, for example, a financial slave that has to provide for your children - don't be a fucking retarded dumbass and piss it away. I was sitting next to My good friend (Mistress Molly) and She was talking to a slave who said something along the lines of, "Mistress I just gave you the money to feed my 9 year old daughter with, she won't be able to eat for a week." Now - obviously the slave was lying, and fessed up to it. However, this sort of behavior is just not okay. I don't care if *you* can't eat for a week, because that is your own damn fault, and I'm more important than you anyway. So I really don't give a fuck either way. I don't give a shit about your wife or girlfriend, I don't give a shit about you. Just because you are a slave doesn't mean that you can't be a positive figure in your childrens lives. Food for thought.

And then, of course, animals. Pretty much the same thing can be applied to animals. I love animals. I haven't eaten an animal since I was 13. I don't want to hear anything that has anything to do about harming/neglecting animals, etc. Not happening. 

6. You are pretty new to the scene. But who are some of Your favorite dommes You would love to work with?

I would love to work with Kiara. I've talked to Her several times and I think She is a very genuine, awesome person and Domme. I also have read some stuff by Kessa, and I think she is really rad. I love Her style, Her personality and She seems like someone I would have a lot in common with. And, My number 1 favoriteDomme is Mistress Molly. We are best friends, and She is currently working on getting up a clip site, website, etc. and I will post about Her when She has all of that together.

7. What are some of the funniest things a slave has done for Your amusement?

LOL! Okay, this is one of My personal favorites. So, My slave was in Las Vegas on a business trip. it was sharing a room with a co-worker. I had it under teamviewer control, and also called it up on the phone. I wanted it to go out and get a money pack. So, instead of allowing it to use the elevator from like the 27th floor or something, I made it use the stairs. Naturally, it was a stupid retard and got lost somewhere in the basement (oh, I also had it on speaker phone and Molly and My boyfriend were both listening and humiliating it as it was lost). Its nickname is "tard," (some of you may have heard of tard on My old site). Me, Molly and My Boyfriend had an inside-joke calling it "tardsama bin laden" (long story), so We made it shout at the top of its lungs "MY NAME IS TARDSAMA BIN LADEN AND I DON'T KNOW WHERE I AM," over and over and over again.

We hear, "fuck, someones yelling, i hear yelling, i think they're coming after me, fuck fuck fuck," then silence for a while.... then "ok, i'm outside, by the taxi line." So, I instruct it to get on its knees and sing "i am tardsama, a pretty fairy princess, i am tardsama, a pretty fairy princess." This was after much moaning and protesting from tard, but of course with all three of Us egging it on, it did it.

Then, We instructed it to hail down a taxi and upon entering say to the taxi guy, "hello mister magical fairy elf man, i am tardsama bin laden and i am taking a magical journey for my Princess." (Apparently the guy was middle eastern and did not look very happy about this).

Anyway, the journey of tard could go on for much longer - but I think I will end it by saying that the money pack was eventually retrieved after much more public humiliation... and to top it off, the idiot forgot to turn its laptop off, so its co-worker got to see all kinds of fucked up shit about it being a sub, and mostly about it worshipping Me. I thought that was fucking hilarious.

8. How can a slave contact You and what are Your rules for first contact?

slaves can contact Me by emailing Me at PrincessChloeCash@gmail.com

However, yahoo instant messenger is always best for Me. you can purchase My yahoo ID via niteflirt, kinkbomb or clips4sale

As for rules for first contact - don't just say, "hi." Erm. Okay, hi. So... Who are you? What the fuck do you want? Why are you popping up on My computer screen? Why the fuck should I even bother talking to you? I know you're probably a bumbling retarded little idiot, but seriously - buck up and say something worth a damn. Tell Me about yourself, not just "slave here." Tell Me where you found Me, why you want to serve Me, whether or not you want to serve Me or if you're thinking about it... Tell Me what kind of slave you are . Because there are going to be other slaves talking to Me that are much more interesting than you. Show Me that you are worth talking to in some way, shape, or form. Intimidated? Good. Know your fucking place.

9. Where do You see Yourself in the scene five years from now?

I see Myself having evolved greatly as a Domme. I see Myself with a handful of long-term, fully owned slaves who have served Me for years. I see Myself progressing further and further, My lifestyle and bank account bigger and better than it is now. I see Myself having built strong relationships with other Dommes and subs. I see Myself having more insight into domination and findom as a whole, and being able to write a lot and share My experiences with others in a clear and concise way. I see Myself being able to always bring something fresh and new to the scene. I see Myself staying true to Myself always, and not making too many plans. Life hardly ever goes as expected - but I welcome all the wonderful things to come.

10. Thank You for this interview Princess. Any parting words for us losers?

Next time, spell check the questions before you send them to Me :) I hate having to edit for you, bitch.

And - well. Keep reading My blogs, keep following on twitter, tributing Me, shopping on My wishlist. Bite the fucking bullet and contact Me. Stop being a creepy, stalking little bitch and get over it. 

What Kind of Slave are you?

I am re-posting articles that I had written for the site Domme Dose. Most of the articles aren't online anymore, so I decided to go ahead and put them up here.


I ask this question often. I read something by a Domme somewhere (completely forget where or who) saying that they didn't like asking the question, and most of the time I ask the question I get, "what do you mean, Princess?"

Well, there are many types of slaves in this realm of our online world. This generally also could fall into, "what is your main fetish?" Let Me break this down, as I see it.

There is, of course, the financial slave. For example, a slave who wants to send tributes and get nothing in return, send gifts, spoil the Domme, and that is it. Sometimes they want to have the Domme on cam while they give tributes and gifts, and other times they feel that is just asking too much as they want absolutely nothing in return. Typically, they call ignore lines just so that their cash can be transferred over to the Domme without getting anything in return other than knowing that their money is going to a beautiful, perfect, dominant woman.

There are cuckold slaves. Slaves who enjoy pampering Me and My boyfriend. They love being humiliated by Us, or just hearing about dates We go on, things of that nature (of course, there are other types of cuckold slaves - the ones who like it when the Domme doesn't have a boyfriend and plays out some sort of fantasy about them sleeping around with men with huge cocks, while they stay at home paying the Domme, etc...). These slaves like to pay for dinners, dates, sexy lingerie that only My boyfriend will see Me wearing. 

Sissy slaves! I have lots of fun with them, haha. They like to dress up for Me, be humiliated about being a sissy, as I taunt them about being such a sissy, girly little bitch (who of course, will NEVER be a real woman like ME!). I like to have them buy Me pretty outfits, makeup, etc.

Then of course, there is the foot slave. In My experience, 75% of the slaves who contact Me are foot slaves - usually paired with some other kind of thing. For example, the other night I had a sissy slave in a cam session deep throating high heels and cleaning converse with its tongue while it had the absolute honor of watching Me laugh My ass at it and humiliate it. Generally, foot slaves find the most enjoyment out of purchasing shoes (a form of financial slavery), paying for pedicures, general foot pampering, watching videos and looking at pictures of My feet. They also sometimes have other fetishes pertaining to feet - smelly feet, dirty feet, barefoot, high heels, boots, etc. 

The list goes on and on. I'm sure you know what your fetishes are, and what type of slave you are. During first contact, I think it's important to establish off the bat what kind of slave you are. "i am a cuckold, financial, foot slave." There we go. I know what kind of assignments/tasks that I want you to take care of. Perhaps you're just a slave who generally likes humiliation in all forms. Whatever it is, it's important to let the Domme know. If you're a slave who loves hypno and the Domme doesn't really do that, then maybe it's just not a right match. I say that it's important to say right off the bat everything you are looking for in a Domme, everything that drives you, makes you weakest, etc. Because it really does save a lot of time and energy on both ends of the computers. If a Domme is uncomfortable with your fetish, then it's time to move on.

I wrote an earlier piece about the Importance of Getting to Know a slave. This is, in a way, an elaboration on that. 

Perhaps you don't really know what type of slave you are, and you are looking for a dominant woman who will help you explore that side of you. That's fine. Say that. I absolutely hate the answer, "i don't know." 

So, what kind of slave are you? 

If you're a purely financial slave and you want to have tributes be demanded constantly, say that. I am not a mind reader, and neither is any other Domme. I don't like demanding tributes right off of the bat. I know that a lot of other Dommes don't feel this way, but I like getting a feel for the slave before I begin doing this. However, if that's your thing - say so! I can't even count how many time I get a new slave who messages Me with just, "hi Princess, slave here. Looking for a Mistress." Well, that's fucking fantastic. 

Another one I hate is when a slave asks, "so how much do you want Me to tribute you?" off the bat. Well, surprises are always nice. I have no idea what kind of financial situation you are in. you could be a millionaire, you could be working a minimum wage job pinching pennies. Who the fuck knows - when you first message Me, you are nothing but a name on a screen, usually writing unintelligible, boring words that I have heard a million times before. I don't like hearing the word, "no." I don't. I like hearing, "yes Princess." (Of course, don't EVER say you are going to do something if you are not going to. It may displease Me in the moment, but it will displease Me MUCH more if you don't follow through). So, a slave asks how much I want tributed? I'll say $500 or $1,000. Seriously. If you can't afford it, you should have said, "I can tribute $100, is that acceptable, Princess?"  Better. I might say, "Make it $125," just to push it a little.

Well, I've gone off on a rant here. The point of this entire rant was to say this:

When you contact a Domme, figure out before you contact Her what you are going to say. Tell Her what you are looking for. Tell Her why you want to serve HER in particular. Tell her what kind of slave you are, tell Her your financial situation, tell Her your experience with domination in the past, etc. I like to have all of this information from all of My slaves. Believe Me - if you like being completely mind-fucked, the best way to DO that is to allow the Domme to get to know you. It makes it THAT much easier for Her to get inside of that fucked up little head of yours and really go to work exploiting your every weakness.

Stability within a D/s Relationship

I am re-posting articles that I had written for the site Domme Dose. Most of the articles aren't online anymore, so I decided to go ahead and put them up here.


Some of you may have read My tweets and blog post about the fact that I am moving. This move has had Me thinking a lot on stability. However, instead of centering this piece around the current goings-on in My own life, I thought that I would write about My thoughts on stability in a D/s relationship, especially pertaining to financial domination. In essence, I will attempt to share My thoughts on long-term Ownership/slavery and the dynamics that make long-term and possibly life-long servitude possible.

I will begin by saying that it is My personal goal as a Woman and as a Domme to fully own a handful of slaves who will stay with Me for the rest of their lives. The idea of life-long servitude is a wonderful idea to Me for many reasons. I believe that having a slave/slaves who are a constant throughout the entirety of their lives and Mine is wonderful, and a beautiful thing. I believe this to be true because the idea of having even one slave stick with Me throughout the duration of their life, worship Me completely as the radiant, dominant, wonderful, intelligent, creative (I could go on) Woman and Domme that I am is something that is, in essence, priceless. Someone who devotes their life to sacrificing for My benefit, who always puts My needs above theirs, whose every life-decision is one that is calculated based on whether or not it will be a benefit or hindrance to their servitude to Me, and to the benefit of My lifestyle and happiness.  

This is but one goal of Mine, and it is one that is not easy. I say this because, as the Dominant in the relationship, every decision is centered around what I want. It is about Me, not the slave. Life is centered around Me as the Domme, as the superior, etc. and this must always be enforced. 

I wish that I could speak from more experience. I have kept one slave for a year, and that is the longest that I have owned one, which in My eyes is not a very long time in the scheme of things. However, in that time that slave has watched Me grow as a Domme. That slave has watched Me try new techniques out on it, such as making hypno clips and mp3's, seeing what works and doesn't, it got to witness the very beginning and very first of all of the clips I made, and also was the first to experience My own style of dominating and control. Through owning that slave I learned a lot about how important the building of trust is, and have come out of it with a lot of information that has helped Me in controlling new slaves that seek Me out. For instance, for six months I didn't let the slave have My phone number, even though it was in chastity. I was gone for a while and the slave tried to saw the cage off of itself. This was a big lesson for Me, because now I make sure that none of My chastity slaves are ever put in that kind of situation, and always have access to Me in case of emergencies. However, through everything that has happened, through all of the trial and error, the slave has stuck with Me, and I with it. It has continued to watch Me grow and evolve as a human and as a Domme. Sometimes I've pushed too hard financially, leaving it with no internet and food. Sometimes I didn't know when to push, when to hold back, or when to go further. I wasn't born knowing how to own another person. I wasn't born knowing exactly what to do in every situation - none of us are. Owning a slave in the fullest extent is a full time job, as far as I am concerned - perhaps some would beg to differ with Me. In the end, I have learned a lot from the experience of fully owning a slave, and it is something that I would like to continue on with. 

After all of this, the slave has learned to have faith and trust in Me that I know what is best over its own opinions and ideas. And thus, My opinions and idea become the slaves, as it learns and is conditioned to think as I want it to. Even if a few months ago I made a decision that I would not have made now, I still stick by that decision because as the superior, I am always in control and thus responsible for any and all actions that I take. 

I think for any sort of long-term ownership to work, there are many things that must take place first. First, I believe that talking to the slave, asking questions, getting to know it, is a very important key to control. When a slave first contacts Me, I normally begin asking questions. When I am satisfied, I ask it if it has any questions for Me, and then sometimes I still keep asking questions. This is because I personally am less interested than the fantasy of domination, and am more interested in actually getting inside of a slave mind and figuring out what is inside. Learning about its experience in the past with domination, why it is the way it is, and a whole array of other information that I would like to know. I think that there is a huge difference between Me as far as on My clips/mp3's and actually having a conversation with Me goes. This is because I have a knack for infiltrating the individuals mind. Some Dommes will argue with Me, but no two subs are the same. Thus, when it comes to mind-fuckery it is difficult to do on an individual level when you are recording a clip that many will be buying. When you are one on one with Me, that's when I really get the chance to do what I am really best at. Perhaps some of the subs who read this still become completely humiliated every time a Domme calls them a "loser" but I doubt this is the case, as over time I feel it probably just becomes another word that they are conditioned to be used to. Therefore, individual insults and humiliations are needed to really hit where it hurts.

This all ties into full ownership because what you are doing is building a relationship. Like with any vanilla relationship, you get to know each other before it gets serious. You get to see whether or not you're compatible, whether or not you like the person, whether or not there is chemistry. I know that I certainly don't have chemistry with each slave that contacts Me. Sometimes I see them sign on and I roll My eyes and go, "ugh, not that annoying freak. If it contacts Me I'm telling it to never speak to Me again." And then there are others who sign on and I think, "I am going to have fun fucking with this one." I also think that Dommes should pick and choose carefully. Always trust your gut instinct. Yes, We are Financial Dommes, but that doesn't mean just because a slave has money that We have to allow it to serve Us. It comes down to the fact that We are always in charge, in control, and We cannot be bought. Ever. We take control, take away power from slaves through the use of various tactics and the extracting of money. Just because a slave has money, does not mean that We should automatically allow it to serve Us. Personally, I'm not a Domme that gets naked. Ever. I don't diss those who do, I just don't believe that a slave should ever have the right to see My body naked. I don't need to allow them to, and if I'm uncomfortable with something then I'm not going to do it and/or allow it. I'm not going to allow a disrespectful, vulgar, wanking asshole to serve ME just because it has money. If it wants to keep clicking My clips/pic sets, sending Me tributes, etc. then that's fine - but that doesn't mean I have to talk to it.

I could go on as this is a very complex subject. However, I will cut this article short by saying that full ownership is a privilege. It is something to be worked hard for, a goal to keep with you as you repeatedly and consistently seek to impress your Domme. It is comparable to wooing a potential mate (to put it in vanilla terms). As the slave, you are a dime a dozen until you step it up. This doesn't just pertain to financial slavery and servitude. There is a vast array of ways that you can serve a Domme, impress Her, and set yourself apart from the rest. And that is what I believe a slave who seeks to be fully owned should do. Set yourself apart from the countless number of slaves who contact Her. Don't pester Her and bug her all the time. Show Her that you are obedient, worthwhile, devoted, and that you have something to offer Her that will benefit Her lifestyle, happiness, and bring some amusement and laughter. 

Beyond Titles

I am re-posting articles that I had written for the site Domme Dose. Most of the articles aren't online anymore, so I decided to go ahead and put them up here.

When I first decided to make My website, and put up all of My pages/clip stores, etc. I ran into a dilemma. As a Domme I felt it was necessary to give Myself a title that would be easily accessible by all who wished to seek Me out. At first, I was going to go with Goddess Chloe, and finally settled on Princess Chloe. Some may think that this is either irrelevant, or that I should automatically associate with one title.

Here I will delve into the definitions of different titles as I see them to be true. This may not be true to all who read My words, but I have done a lot of pondering and thinking on them and have come to some conclusions.

Princess is generally associated with a young girl. She is to be pampered, spoiled, is often bitchy, bossy and bratty. A Goddess is a strong female who inherently deserves to be worshipped as the radiant, wonderful and beautiful being that She is, whereas Mistress brings about the image of a strong female (possibly leather-clad) who is swift in doling out punishments and humiliations as She sees fit. There are many other titles, and most of these are self-explanatory: hypnodomme, humiliatrix, etc. 

Personally, I believe Myself to be all of these things. I am a Princess to be spoiled and pampered, a Goddess who deserves the utmost form of worship and sacrifice by My slaves, and a Mistress who is harsh, controlling, and not hesitant in the least when it comes to the punishment of My slaves as I see fit.

Readers may be wondering what the point of this article really is - what is at the core, the root, and why this issue is something that I see as worth addressing. For one, I think that the title that a slave uses in relation to addressing Me depends wholly on the relationship between Myself and the slave. A slave who seeks to worship should refer to Me as Goddess, a slave whom I control every aspect of their lives which seeks humiliation and punishment should refer to Me as Mistress, where perhaps a strictly financial slave who only seeks to spoil Me with gifts and money should refer to Me as Princess. 

Myself, and all of Us as Dommes are so multi-faceted that sometimes more than one title is necessary. I think it is important to use only one on most websites and pages. This is because if My website was Princess Chloe, My kinkbomb Goddess Chloe, and My twitter Mistress Chloe, it would be a lot harder for slaves to seek Me out, and thus could even come to the conclusion that they were different Dommes. But I do not think that it is so important to stick so wholly to one title. As Dommes, we grow, change, and evolve over time. One moment We feel ourselves to be a Goddess and the next a spoiled and pampered Princess. In an instant I can turn from a laughing Princess to a cruel humiliatrix, pushing all of your limits to the extreme while the Goddess inside of Me looks down upon you commanding you to bow before Me and sacrifice for Me. 

And then, there is something else - something deeper that I have not yet found a name for. I am all of these things, but I am in no means limited by them. I am an intellectual and creative human being. Words and ideas constantly spill out of Me, I am a philosopher, a complex and intricate Woman who transcends the need to be confined to any sort of label. These labels are in place because they give a better idea when it comes to the association of what I am about. These labels are words that you give a meaning, and then associate that meaning with the word and hence the person behind the word/label. 

Some of you may get it, and other weak-minded individuals may not. I have contradicted Myself in this piece. I am saying that I find titles necessary, and at the same time I do not. 

I demand that My slaves refer to Me always as Princess Chloe, Goddess Chloe or Mistress Chloe. However, I refuse to be confined to these titles. These titles simply express facets of My being and personality, and are a constant reminder of the slaves submission to Me as the superior.

Shit that happened since I posted last.