subs that slut

I am re-posting articles that I had written for the site Domme Dose. Most of the articles aren't online anymore, so I decided to go ahead and put them up here.

Subs that Slut

First, let’s define what “slutting,”means in the context that I am writing about. A slave slutting is when they go around to multiple Dommes, even going as far as to tell each Domme that they are seeing her exclusively when they are, in fact, not.

Many slaves slut around to other Dommes. It’s a fact. Many so-called “owned” slaves slut around. There are times when I believe that slutting is and is not acceptable.

Some slaves, especially online, are prone to going from Domme to Domme and have never seriously considered the option of being fully owned in a real sense. In My opinion, a lot of this can be attributed to the fact that in a lot of cases one feels a huge divide from reality in the online world. In the minds of many subs online, all aspects are simply fantasies and nothing more.

This can be a problem, and sometimes it’s not.

It’s a problem when the sub blatantly goes around lying to Dommes. That’s never okay. If you’re going to slut, find Dommes who don’t give a shit if you slut or not. Plain and simple. Sure, you may be drawn to specific Dommes who don’t tolerate slutting, but if they’re not going to be able to respect the fact that you’re being completely honest from the beginning, then it’s best to move on. Dommes have feelings too, as much as we are ruthless, evil, mean, demanding, controlling – well, I’m assuming that you know all about that.

Despite all of these attributes, we still get pissed when we are lied to – especially by those who stick around by us for a prolonged period of time. I’m speaking of this with the assumption that the Dommes are actually doing this for more than *just* the money, and also enjoy having an array of devoted worshippers that are loyal to her and stick by her.

Some of you don’t want to slut. Some of you genuinely want to be fully owned, yet it never seems to work out, so you find yourselves straying away as soon as you get too close. It’s a vicious cycle that some of you have repeated for years upon years, one Domme after the other, never finding any real sense of purpose or direction, constantly searching for that one woman to fill the void that has festered within you for so long.

In the process you have done nothing meaningful except spew a bunch of lies to those whom you respect and adore the most.

To those who don’t want to slut but don’t seem to be able to help it – tell each Domme you contact that yes, you see other Dommes but are wishing to stop at some point, and to please bear with you while you figure out what you want.

To those of you who slut and never plan on stopping, tell each Domme you contact that you are going to see other Dommes, or simply that full ownership is not something you are interested in.

To those of you who lie and slut behind your Dommes back – confess, and figure out what exactly it is that you want. Obviously you’re unhappy and something isn’t working out, but lying is never the right answer… especially since being submissive is so inherent in your nature, at the core of your being. Lying to superior women is not something you enjoy – no, it only brings shame and guilt.

Ask yourself – what is it that you want?