Thoughts on Chastity

I am re-posting articles that I had written for the site Domme Dose. Most of the articles aren't online anymore, so I decided to go ahead and put them up here.


Chastity involves denying a slave of their ability to orgasm. Generally the slave needs a chastity device that will be affixed and locked to the genitals.

There are many great benefits to having a slave in chastity. I will outline several of these benefits.

I have found when a slave is locked in chastity they are more submissive and attentive than ever. A slave who once had a hard time remembering things I told it will remember and cling to every word I say. Not only will they remember every word, but their obedience increases as well.  A once difficult slave may find that once in chastity they want to please their Dominant more than ever. A slave will also want to work as hard as possible so that they will be released on the day agreed upon, and their greatest form of pleasure (what used to be their release) is now purely pleasing and submitting to their Dominant.

Because of the level of increased submission, I have found that having a slave locked in chastity is the most ideal for training and conditioning. Training a slave who is locked in chastity is much easier than training a slave who is not (of course there are exceptions to the rule). Having orgasm denial forced upon the slave at all times increases their desire for that release, and they will do practically anything to be able to do that again. Training the slave when they are in this condition is highly rewarding for both the Domme and the slave.

As fantastic as chastity is, there are some things to consider before entering to any chastity contract.

It is important that when in chastity you have the right Domme. I also believe that when a slave is locked in chastity they should be able to contact the Domme at any time. This should not be abused - but there are some dangers and situations that can come up where the slave will need to be released immediately or as soon as possible (depending on what method of locking is used, will go into that later). It's important to be safe when undergoing any chastity situation. 

Are you going to use a key or a combination lock? Both of these options certainly have their allure. There is something very humbling and drives a slave crazy about seeing the Domme holding the key to their cage. It is so enticing, so alluring to hand over the key to your manhood. However, if you need to be released for some reason, chances are (assuming this is an online D/s relationship) it may take a while for the key to arrive in the mail. It's impossible to instantly be unlocked. 

A combination lock also has its ups and downs. Generally when locking a slave using a combination lock I will have them blindfold themselves and get on webcam. I have them scramble the numbers, write down the numbers, and when I am sure of what they are I give them the signal to lock the device, then have them rescramble them. Obviously, there are ways that a slave can get around blindfolding themselves on webcam, and if they are dishonest can work around this method. However, it is much easier to send the combination at a moments notice. This method is great if the slave will be locked for several days, released, locked again, etc. and there is a lot of locking and unlocking to be had. In this situation it is imperative that the Domme be sure of the numbers, and that they keep good track of what the combination is. Also, if the slave needs to break out of the device in an emergency, I can send them a pay-to-view mail they must pay for to get the numbers.

It's also important to test being in a device for a while before just sending the key over. I've had instances where a slave was so desperate to get out that it was in the garage trying to saw the device off. This is not good, and all precautions should be taken to avoid this sort of desperate act. As much as abusing slaves amuses Me, a slave should never be in the position where they are so desperate that they risk mutilating themselves for life. 

Chastity is definitely an enticing fetish, and also a fun way to get a slave to their ultimate level of submission. Readers are encouraged to write about their own experiences and thoughts on chastity.