What Kind of Slave are you?

I am re-posting articles that I had written for the site Domme Dose. Most of the articles aren't online anymore, so I decided to go ahead and put them up here.


I ask this question often. I read something by a Domme somewhere (completely forget where or who) saying that they didn't like asking the question, and most of the time I ask the question I get, "what do you mean, Princess?"

Well, there are many types of slaves in this realm of our online world. This generally also could fall into, "what is your main fetish?" Let Me break this down, as I see it.

There is, of course, the financial slave. For example, a slave who wants to send tributes and get nothing in return, send gifts, spoil the Domme, and that is it. Sometimes they want to have the Domme on cam while they give tributes and gifts, and other times they feel that is just asking too much as they want absolutely nothing in return. Typically, they call ignore lines just so that their cash can be transferred over to the Domme without getting anything in return other than knowing that their money is going to a beautiful, perfect, dominant woman.

There are cuckold slaves. Slaves who enjoy pampering Me and My boyfriend. They love being humiliated by Us, or just hearing about dates We go on, things of that nature (of course, there are other types of cuckold slaves - the ones who like it when the Domme doesn't have a boyfriend and plays out some sort of fantasy about them sleeping around with men with huge cocks, while they stay at home paying the Domme, etc...). These slaves like to pay for dinners, dates, sexy lingerie that only My boyfriend will see Me wearing. 

Sissy slaves! I have lots of fun with them, haha. They like to dress up for Me, be humiliated about being a sissy, as I taunt them about being such a sissy, girly little bitch (who of course, will NEVER be a real woman like ME!). I like to have them buy Me pretty outfits, makeup, etc.

Then of course, there is the foot slave. In My experience, 75% of the slaves who contact Me are foot slaves - usually paired with some other kind of thing. For example, the other night I had a sissy slave in a cam session deep throating high heels and cleaning converse with its tongue while it had the absolute honor of watching Me laugh My ass at it and humiliate it. Generally, foot slaves find the most enjoyment out of purchasing shoes (a form of financial slavery), paying for pedicures, general foot pampering, watching videos and looking at pictures of My feet. They also sometimes have other fetishes pertaining to feet - smelly feet, dirty feet, barefoot, high heels, boots, etc. 

The list goes on and on. I'm sure you know what your fetishes are, and what type of slave you are. During first contact, I think it's important to establish off the bat what kind of slave you are. "i am a cuckold, financial, foot slave." There we go. I know what kind of assignments/tasks that I want you to take care of. Perhaps you're just a slave who generally likes humiliation in all forms. Whatever it is, it's important to let the Domme know. If you're a slave who loves hypno and the Domme doesn't really do that, then maybe it's just not a right match. I say that it's important to say right off the bat everything you are looking for in a Domme, everything that drives you, makes you weakest, etc. Because it really does save a lot of time and energy on both ends of the computers. If a Domme is uncomfortable with your fetish, then it's time to move on.

I wrote an earlier piece about the Importance of Getting to Know a slave. This is, in a way, an elaboration on that. 

Perhaps you don't really know what type of slave you are, and you are looking for a dominant woman who will help you explore that side of you. That's fine. Say that. I absolutely hate the answer, "i don't know." 

So, what kind of slave are you? 

If you're a purely financial slave and you want to have tributes be demanded constantly, say that. I am not a mind reader, and neither is any other Domme. I don't like demanding tributes right off of the bat. I know that a lot of other Dommes don't feel this way, but I like getting a feel for the slave before I begin doing this. However, if that's your thing - say so! I can't even count how many time I get a new slave who messages Me with just, "hi Princess, slave here. Looking for a Mistress." Well, that's fucking fantastic. 

Another one I hate is when a slave asks, "so how much do you want Me to tribute you?" off the bat. Well, surprises are always nice. I have no idea what kind of financial situation you are in. you could be a millionaire, you could be working a minimum wage job pinching pennies. Who the fuck knows - when you first message Me, you are nothing but a name on a screen, usually writing unintelligible, boring words that I have heard a million times before. I don't like hearing the word, "no." I don't. I like hearing, "yes Princess." (Of course, don't EVER say you are going to do something if you are not going to. It may displease Me in the moment, but it will displease Me MUCH more if you don't follow through). So, a slave asks how much I want tributed? I'll say $500 or $1,000. Seriously. If you can't afford it, you should have said, "I can tribute $100, is that acceptable, Princess?"  Better. I might say, "Make it $125," just to push it a little.

Well, I've gone off on a rant here. The point of this entire rant was to say this:

When you contact a Domme, figure out before you contact Her what you are going to say. Tell Her what you are looking for. Tell Her why you want to serve HER in particular. Tell her what kind of slave you are, tell Her your financial situation, tell Her your experience with domination in the past, etc. I like to have all of this information from all of My slaves. Believe Me - if you like being completely mind-fucked, the best way to DO that is to allow the Domme to get to know you. It makes it THAT much easier for Her to get inside of that fucked up little head of yours and really go to work exploiting your every weakness.