The Essence of a Woman's Power

I am re-posting articles that I had written for the site Domme Dose. Most of the articles aren't online anymore, so I decided to go ahead and put them up here.

I don't get naked for submissives. I don't get naked for anyone but My boyfriend. In fact, I never plan on having naked pictures/videos of Myself on the internet or anywhere else, ever. 

Am I uncomfortable with My body? On the contrary, I love My body. I celebrate My body every single day, and fully love Myself - every inch of Myself. I do not have low self-esteem in any sense of the word. 

So why not get naked for submissive slaves? There's a possibility that it would make more money, and I certainly like money. 

Here are the reasons why I do not, and will not, ever get naked on cam/video/pics:

I do not believe that submissives are worthy of seeing My body. No, you idiots are only worthy of licking My feet - and that is a priviledge that must be worked HARD for. Haha, you know what? Most of you idiots that serve Me aren't even worthy of THAT. How fucked up is that? Not being even worthy of licking the lowest part of My body. Sad. 

I don't have children but hey, I might someday. How horrible would it be if they, or My family, friends, etc. were cruising the web and BAM - oh look, Chloe is naked for money! Uh, embarrassing and also kind of degrading. I don't degrade Myself.

There are several reasons behind releasing pictures/videos. Making money, and making a submissive very weak - sending them into "subspace" and getting them to that ultimate point of ultimate addiction. Most of the clips I see on kinkbomb (not all, but a whole lot of them) seem like the Domme relys on their body to weaken the submissive/addict them. This is not what I'm about. Sure, I use My body to weaken a submissive. But I do it in conjunction with the power of My mind. My mind is the most powerful asset that I have. I know just what buttons to push. I know exactly how to tease a submissive with My words, while painting mental pictures of what they can't have. This, to Me, is much more humiliating, degrading, effective, creative, addicting, and a whole array of other adjectives that could be used to describe what happens to a submissive when they are under My control. 

The intention of this article is not to diss women who get naked on cam/video. I respect all women, and they can use their bodies however they wish. Their bodies are their bodies and I am in no place to tell them what is and isn't acceptable to do with them. I believe in sexual freedom, and if that is what makes them happy then they should feel free to do what they wish. However, if they are doing it because they think it's the only way they can make money and do not feel sexually liberated/empowered by it, then I find it sad. I do not think that a woman should ever have to get naked and use her body for the sole purpose of supporting herself... even when it is giving the illusion that she is celebrating her power as a woman. 

When I first started recording clips, I must admit that I was unsure of what to do. My style of domination is heavily based on the mind game. No two relationships I have with My submissives are the same. I believe in tailored humiliation to weaken the submissive. Sure, some submissives still weak from being called a loser at random without divulging any facts about themselves that would make them a loser. Fine. They're easy. However, with so many women out there flaunting themselves and their ability to make an "L" with their fingers and call someone a loser for some cash, I think that the humiliation of this is lessened. Instead, I find it more effective to get inside of their head. Why are they the way they are? What makes them less than Me, other than the obvious reasons upon contact? I think that making a good clip has more to do with penetrating deep into the submissives psyche. Yes, My body, My face, My feet, and all aspects of Me are there for the slave to see and further weaken them - but the greatest weakener is the words and infinite knowledge that are coming out of someone so breathtakingly beautiful.

There is nothing sexier, more seductive and dangerous than the powerful mind of a woman. Especially a woman who knows how to take control. Who loves power. Pure, sheer, utter, brilliant dominance. It's easy to find the naked body of a woman online. Just go to a porn site - the internet is drowning in easily accessible porn. A brilliant and powerful mind of a woman on the other hand - one that is able to easily take charge of your body and mind... Now that is a rare treasure. One to be worshipped and never taken for granted. 

Unfortunately, many slaves do take their Domme for granted - or even the chance at serving. Any time you, as a slave, have the chance to serve a powerful Domme... it should be treated as the utmost privilege. A real Domme that gives you the chance to get to know Her on any level, interact, speak with you, and the possibility of servitude, is indeed a rare and difficult thing. That is why, I believe, there are so many slaves who drift from Domme to Domme for years on end, looking for that one spark. The same can be said for vanilla relationships. People date, see if there is chemistry there, and if not they go their separate ways (sometimes in dramatic ways). The same applies to a D/s relationship, even a financial one.

If I have learned anything about most financial slaves, it is that they are not willing to open their wallets up to just anyone calling themselves a Domme. This is also a misconception that a lot of women have about financial domination. It is a craft, and to be a Financial Domme you must have a love for it. Building a financial D/s relationship takes time. The slave must feel that certain rush, thrill, excitement, and submission when handing their money over to their Dominant. They want to see how their gifts and tributes are affecting the Dommes life. Seeing her with their gifts or tributes hits such a deep nerve with so many, and feeds that addiction to want to do more.

This is true of not only financial slaves, but all slaves in general. Hell, relationships just work this way. There are always two sides to any relationship. A true foot slave will want to ensure all aspects of its Dommes feet are truly taken care of, truly worshipped and pampered in every way that they can. A true Domme will love that they are being worshipped in the way they truly deserve. Enticing the foot slave with how relaxed, how soft, how wonderful their feet are... how comfortable the new shoes they were given are, or how sexy they make her feet look... adding to their foot slaves addiction. 

To sum up this article, a woman's mind is always more powerful than her body. Even if it is the body that weakens you, there is usually a trigger behind that weakening that is brought about by the psychology of the mind behind the body. If not, then are you really submissive? Or just weak for a womans body and nothing else? 

I believe in the worship and empowerment of women as a whole. This means bowing down to all aspects of a woman's personality, mind, body, and soul. It is all of these things combined that bring about the true power and weakening factors of a woman.

Readers, feel free to add your opinions here. Dommes - what do you find is the most powerful part of yourself to weaken a submissive? And submissives - what about a Domme do you find truly weakens you the most? If you are a foot fetishist - is it solely (no pun intended) a woman's feet, or is it the combination of a woman's powerful mind *and* feet that truly brings you to your knees?