Full ownership. These are two words that I do not take lightly in the least. There are so many different aspects of fully owning a slave.
Firstly, I do not plan on owning a ridiculous amount of *fully owned* slaves. Why? Because there is only so much time in the day and week. A fully owned slave is one that has contact with Me on an extremely regular basis. So how many slaves do I wish to fully own? Not exceeding ten. This ensures that I have the time for each slave.
Full ownership. A lot of slaves come to Me seeking this. It is fine when they state that it is their intent to someday be fully owned by Me – but when a slave comes to Me saying they wish to be fully owned as soon as possible, I am apprehensive about several things. Firstly, the bond between a slave and Domme is a relationship. A D/s relationship. Like with any relationship, there has to be compatibility for anything to truly work. This goes both ways. The sub may not be right for Me, and I may not be right for the sub. There has to be some kind of chemistry for things to progress successfully in the long-term. And that is what I seek. Long term. Certainly, I accept slaves in the short term, and I accept lots of different slaves to serve Me – but they do not get as much attention as the fully owned slave, among other things.
For those of you who are wondering if you have what it takes to be My fully owned slave, I will outline some of the most important qualities to Me. Honesty is at the basis of any relationship, as is trust – be it vanilla or otherwise. If I find that you are dishonest, a liar, and untrustworthy then there is absolutely no reason in My eyes to continue. The same goes on My end as well. Limits are discussed for a reason, and I do abide by the limits set forth by the slave. Although, I must admit it is fun to push limits and tease around them (depending, of course on what the limits are. I do have My own limits too). Naturally, the ability to follow through with all orders that are within the parameter of limits previously set forth by the slave and Myself. Consistency is another thing that is important to Me. Consistently following through, consistently taking initiative to impress Me, make Me happy, etc. Because ultimately, I am here for My own enjoyment. I have done a lot of thinking, pondering, and self-exploration to come to the conclusion that I wish to be a Domme for the rest of My life. At the core of My being, I am a Domme, and I have embraced this part of Myself to the fullest extent.
Respect. This is something that some so-called slaves do not quite understand the concept of. I am going to completely ignore those, and get to the core of this requirement – it is necessary to be respectful and humble in My presence at all times. No exceptions. If I make a demand of you that you are completely unable to do, or morally against for whatever reasons, that does not give you the right to become a disrespectful little shit. I am to be respected, worshipped, and treated as the Princess that I am at all times. At no time are the lines between Mistress and slave to be crossed.
Which brings Me to this: I am not your friend, nor will I ever be. Sometimes with fully owned slaves, there is a sense of comfort that comes about. I may confide in the slave as needed. Perhaps personal issues come up that will mean I won’t be around for a set amount of time and visa versa. Just because sometimes intimate details of our lives are exchanged does not mean that W/we are friends in any way shape or form. So don’t treat Me as a friend – treat Me with respect, loyalty, and as always, remain humble. I will always reinforce My status as the superior being, and it is important that the slave knows its place at all times.
Earlier, I briefly mentioned limits. A slave that doesn’t have limits is, to put it lightly, shifty in My eyes. W/we all have our limits – and if you don’t, then I am unsure that you are right for Me. For example, one of My biggest limits is children. If you are a slave with children, you are responsible for them and in no way are you to let your servitude to Me affect them in any way. This goes for all aspects. If you are a teamviewer slave, I expect you to say that before a session so that I ensure that there is no way your children will access anything they should not be able to. Same goes for financial slaves. I expect you to tell Me that you have children, how much things cost to take care of them, etc… Just because you are a slave does not mean that you have to give up being a positive role in your family. (Oh, and for the record – I don’t give a fuck about wives or girlfriends).
As much as I have covered here on full ownership, I have only skimmed the surface of what it really means, but I will say a few more things on it here. To become fully owned, there must be a lot of rapport. I want to know everything about you, psycho-analyze your mind, know your inner and outer workings. I want you to ask Me questions, get to know Me, and visa versa so that it is something that is known and not just assumed that W/we are compatible for the long haul. Because that is what I want from My group of the lucky few. Long-term, life-long slaves who will serve Me through everything.
The details of full ownership is something that I enjoy very much in discussing, because it is something that excites Me. I am excited by the idea, and by having fully owned slaves who completely devote their lives to Me and none else. This is where veils of fantasy melt away and there is nothing but the true reality of your servitude to be left with. It is a life-changing commitment for the slave, and so much more.
